Windows 10: Remote Access Trojan RAT by malicious ex, how to obtain evidence

I believe my ex has put a RAT in my home devices, Its become controlling and coercive, can i down load the event viewer in full to get the required evidence, I have been subject to this constant control with my emails , social media, website passwords and control of the hub. As I'm self employed i have lost 4 months income and the police have told me i need to provide evidence as they do not have the resources but on the other hand this could be classed as domestic abuse. I'm at my wits end and need some guidance on how to obtain the evidence . In the event viewer certain logs have no detail i

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Suspected Remote Access Trojan (RAT) On Router

The RAT infection is a malware designed to allow an attacker to remotely control an infected computer. RATs, like any malware, are only a danger if they are installed and executed on a target computer. This video guide gives a full review on remote access trojan. It covers its meaning, functions, bad effects, detection, removal, as well as protection methods.

 

Suspected Remote Access Trojan (RAT) On Router

I have this app. It always shows so many programs that open without me opening them.

 

Suspected Remote Access Trojan (RAT) On Router

Original poster here. I got my new router but havn't used it yet. I will make sure UPNP is disabled and no port forwarding. I find the programme Livetcpudpwatch useful this sometimes show connections to port 1900 are being made. Port 1900 is known for vulnerabilities and of no use to an average home user who just uses the computer for browsing etc. The attached pic is from a 10 minute session